You know my reproach the psalmist says
Plainly Jesus was the one who was especially reproached. He was, you remember, really God in the flesh.
“18 Draw near to my soul, and redeem it.
Ransom me because of my enemies.
19 You know my reproach, my shame, and my dishonor.
My adversaries are all before you.”
Psa 69:18-19
Jesus was, we need to remember, really God
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
Jn 1:1
What then was Jesus really like?
“6 who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider it robbery to be equal with God, 7 but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to death, yes, the death of the cross.”
Phil 2:6-8
What was His treatment really like?
“28 They stripped him, and put a scarlet robe on him. 29 They braided a crown of thorns and put it on his head, and a reed in his right hand; and they kneeled down before him, and mocked him, saying, “Hail, King of the Jews!” 30 They spat on him, and took the reed and struck him on the head. 31 When they had mocked him, they took the robe off of him, and put his clothes on him, and led him away to crucify him.”
Mtt 27:28-31
This is treatment of God in the flesh!
“39 Those who passed by blasphemed him, wagging their heads, 40 and saying, “You who destroy the temple, and build it in three days, save yourself! If you are the Son of God, come down from the cross!” 41 Likewise the chief priests also mocking, with the scribes, the Pharisees,a and the elders, said, 42 “He saved others, but he can’t save himself. If he is the King of Israel, let him come down from the cross now, and we will believe in him. 43 He trusts in God. Let God deliver him now, if he wants him; for he said, ‘I am the Son of God.’” 44 The robbers also who were crucified with him cast on him the same reproach.”
Mtt 27:39-44
Who did they really have heartburn with? It was with God. I just needed a little help, He says,
“Reproach has broken my heart,
“and I am full of heaviness.
I looked for some to take pity, but there was none;
For comforters, but I found none.”
Psa 69:20
Broken hearted, that was Jesus approaching hard hearted Jerusalem, Lk 19:41-42.
Also it can be argued that it was a broken heart
that killed Jesus
An aneurysm. A ruptured artery to His heart. Then He bled to death internally, His body cavity filling with His blood, and being dead long enough, the blood and fluids were separating.
“However one of the soldiers pierced his side with a spear, and immediately blood and water came out.”
Jn 19:34
Scriptures are from the World English Bible (WEB), a copyright free revision
of the original ASV American Standard Version 1901